Planning the perfect proposal? Long Island offers no shortage of breathtaking backdrops to pop the question. From charming vineyards and secluded beaches to iconic landmarks, it’s a dream destination for unforgettable moments. As a local photographer, I’ve had the honor of capturing countless proposals and these 10 romantic places top the list every time.
Whether you're going for a grand gesture or an intimate moment, here are the 10 most romantic places to propose on Long Island.
1. Montauk Point Lighthouse
Best for: Ocean views & historic charm
There’s nothing quite like the dramatic cliffs and crashing waves near the Montauk Point Lighthouse. It's perfect for a scenic, windswept proposal, especially at sunset. After you pop the question, enjoy a walk along the shoreline or celebrate at a local seafood spot nearby.
2. Planting Fields Arboretum (Oyster Bay)
Best for: Lush gardens & European-style architecture
This 400 acre estate is bursting with natural beauty, from greenhouses to rose gardens. The Italian Garden and Carshalton Gates are especially magical for proposals and ideal for a hidden photographer to capture the big moment.
3. Port Jefferson Harbor
Best for: Quaint seaside charm
Propose while watching the boats drift in or take a walk on the pier during golden hour. Port Jeff is full of cozy cafés, making it easy to turn your proposal into an all day date.
4. Old Westbury Gardens
Best for: Timeless elegance & fairy tale vibes
Step into a real life romance novel with manicured gardens, fountains, and a stunning historic mansion. Old Westbury Gardens is one of Long Island’s most photogenic spots and a favorite for proposal photography.
5. Del Vino Vineyard (Northport)
Best for: Wine lovers & countryside romance
Toast your new chapter with a glass of rosé! Del Vino's scenic vineyard, sunset views, and rustic elegance create a perfect proposal setting. Book a wine tasting or picnic to make the day even more memorable.
6. Lavender by the Bay (East Marion)
Best for: Seasonal beauty & unique charm
During peak bloom (June / July), this lavender farm is absolutely stunning. The fields are dreamy, fragrant, and perfect for a soft, intimate proposal surrounded by purple waves.
7. Robert Moses State Park
Best for: Ocean breezes & casual magic
Robert Moses State Park offers stunning colors at dusk. Propose on the sand with the Atlantic waves in the background, or take a romantic walk along the boardwalk and find a quiet spot by the dunes to pop the question.
8. Vanderbilt Museum & Planetarium (Centerport)
Best for: Stars, stories & stargazing
For the astronomy loving couple, propose under the stars at the Vanderbilt Planetarium or in front of the museum’s mansion with views overlooking Northport Harbor.
9. Jones Beach at Sunset
Best for: Classic beach proposal
Jones Beach offers stunning colors at dusk. Propose on the sand with waves in the background, or walk along the West End boardwalk and find a quiet spot to pop the question.
10. Caumsett State Historic Park Preserve (Lloyd Harbor)
Best for: Forest paths & coastal charm
With woodlands, meadows, and a quiet shoreline, Caumsett is ideal for nature lovers who want privacy and beauty. The rolling trails and coastal views make for a picturesque and personal proposal spot.
📸 Bonus Tip: Hire a Proposal Photographer
Proposals happen fast but the memory can last forever with the right photographer there to catch it. I offer discreet proposal photography services across Long Island, helping couples freeze that moment of surprise and joy.
Want help planning your proposal or choosing the perfect location? Contact me and let’s capture your love story from the very beginning.
